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Barnes in Common

the magazine of Churches Together in Barnes
September/October 2006


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Difficulties with prayer?

Perhaps the following points and Scripture verses will help

What good does Prayer do?

  • God has made room within His created order (an 'open' creation) for things to change and be changed.
    See Exodus 14:19-22; Joshua 10:12-14; 2 Kings 20:8-11; Matthew 14:25-33; Matthew 15:33-38; John 2:6-10
  • Prayer is based upon a living, working relationship. Prayer builds up that relationship.
    See 1 Samuel 3:7-11; Luke 22:39-44

    We pray as much as we desire, and we desire as much as we love.
    St Anthony

Problems Concentrating

  • Begin right! Pause before you pray and imagine yourself being admitted for a royal audience.
  • Pray aloud, as though the King were there before you.
  • Vary your posture. Kneel, stand, walk. Vary your surroundings. Do what helps you most.
  • Keep a prayer list – names, situations, etc.
  • Write out your prayers. Use written prayers.
  • Read the Bible before you pray.
  • Do not relegate prayer to times when you feel too weary, too busy.
  • Don't worry about slow progress. Much 'spade work' may be needed.

Also

    • Don't equate length of prayer time with spiritual maturity.
    • Don't equate verbosity with spiritual maturity, Matthew 6:7

We may pray most when we say least, and we may pray least when we say most.
St Augustine

Unanswered Prayer

  • God's delays are not necessarily His denials. Sometimes the time is not right, see Daniel 10:12-14
  • Sometimes God's answer is 'No', see Matthew 7:9-11
  • Sometimes prayers are better left unanswered, see Psalm 106:13-15
  • God looks deeper than our words and meets the secret (unknown?) needs of our life, see 2 Corinthians 12:8-9
    'Though we make mistakes in asking, God never makes mistakes in answering.'

Finally, remember that 'Seven days without prayer makes one weak'.

CONTENTS:
What we did at the Fair
Pastoral Letter
Revd Roger Hutchings
Castelnau Centre Project
The Evangelical Alliance
Cardinal Conway
Church News
For Your Diary
St Ethelburga's Centre
Difficulties with prayer?